We need to love with someone many times in our life until we find the most suitable person. In this process, we have to go through the pain of breaking up. In my opinion, there are three reasons of breaking up. First at all, Two people's character is not suitable. Two people full in love at the beginning, they aren't really understand each other. Through a period of coexistence, they have enough time to understand each other. They probably have some troubles. In addition, They have different opinions in the same problem;therefore,they always quarrel. Finally, they can't find same opinion, so they have to break up. Second, someone changes of heart. At the beginning, two people fall in love, and no one can lose this love. Moreover, some person can't pass the test of time. After a long time, they probably feel always doing something with same person. There are no passion and excitement with them. Some people feel very boring, so they want to find new one. Last, they are defeated by the reality. There are lots of real problems in our life. Such as, money, parents, job, distance and so on. The reality is too cruel. Perhaps they are in love, they don't have enough money to live or their parents don't like or other things. For example, I had a girlfriend before I went to Canada. we fell in love for five years. She always felt lonely when I was gone. She hoped that we can do everything together; however, I can't go back to her. The distance between us is the farthest in the world, so we had to break up. Sometime we don't have the ability to change reality. In short, the reasons of breaking up are two people's character is not suitable, someone changes of heart and they are defeated by the reality. After you break up many times, you will find a soul mate who likes the sun rises and sets with you.
Lawerence, this is a very thoughtful and sincere text. It is clear that you have given this a lot of thought.
ReplyDeleteI like very much your text. You almost make me cry! I agree with you, you need to love more than one time before you find your soul mate.
ReplyDeleteThe reality is too cruel... I agree so muchh with this sentence Lawrence .. !! Life is hard, and love is tough .. !!! I know that it was hard for you when you broke up with your girlfriend.. but look at you now, You are so strong :) !!! I dont worry about you and find your soul mate because you're so gentle and an amazing friend Lawrence :) !!!!!
ReplyDeleteLowrence you are right, you need to fall in love with more then one person to find the real person, it is the reality.
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