Failure is the Mother of Success

           Have you ever made mistakes? Did you fail? I think everybody has failed. Some people have failed in their studies. Some people have failed in the work. Failure can destroy your confidence. Many people will lose their direction. They have nothing to do. Moreover, in China, there is a good saying about failure, “Failure is the mother of success.” It means that you should not worry about failure; you will be success after you fail. Everyone must conquer the failure. How can you accept failure? There are three points in my opinion. You should know that failure is a normal situation, failure is not a bad thing and failure can help you to succeed.

          First, failure is a normal situation. Don’t worry about it. Every one had ever failed, but you will have a different result if you have different attitudes. In addition, some people lose confidence; they can’t do anything. Probably, they stay at home all the time and don’t eat and sleep to think why they have failed. Many problems around them, they will be crazy. They go to work or study without confidence. It will become a vicious circle. They are far away from the success. Furthermore, the other people, they will have more morale and continue to go work or study passionably. It can push you to improve; that will become a virtuous circle. They will close to the success. Which one do you want to choose? 

          Second, Failure is not a bad thing. When you are failed, you will get more experiences. You can study something useful form them and continue your work. And then, you are surprised to find that your work is easier; you are stronger than other competitors. In addition, these are valuable wealth in your life. You will become mature, steady and more attractive. Also, your ability is going to be bigger and bigger.

         Last, Failure can help you to succeed. Don’t lose your confidence and heart. You must believe yourself. In Chinese saying “Sunshine will turn out after the rain.” For example, Edison is a famous inventor. He invented the light after he failed more than 200 times. During this time, he never give up; he trust that he can do it, so he succeeds. Furthermore, if you want to succeed, you must go cross failure many times. You should do anything with confidence all the times.

        In short, failure is a normal situation, is not a bad thing and can help you to succeed. Don’t let failure deter you. Let failure can be productive. Success is not far away.